{"id":2471,"date":"2024-01-04T17:09:57","date_gmt":"2024-01-05T00:09:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.rhondaparrish.com\/home\/?p=2471"},"modified":"2024-01-04T17:09:57","modified_gmt":"2024-01-05T00:09:57","slug":"looking-back-at-2023","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.rhondaparrish.com\/home\/looking-back-at-2023\/","title":{"rendered":"Looking Back at 2023"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-2472\" src=\"https:\/\/www.rhondaparrish.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add-a-subheading-1024x576.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"784\" height=\"441\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Each year I like to set some goals for myself and an important part of that process is looking back at them afterward to see how well I did at actually reaching them. Last year I set my goals <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rhondaparrish.com\/home\/goals-for-2023\/\">here<\/a> and now is that &#8216;looking back&#8217; part. I share this process publicly, in part, to add a note of accountability to the whole process.<\/p>\n<p>This year&#8217;s goal achieving was hampered a little bit by the fact I actually forgot what some of my goals were. I usually put &#8216;Refresh your memory about what your goals are&#8217; in my planner every couple months, but my world kind of turned upside down at times last year and I sometimes went months without even looking at my planner. Which is realllllly out of character for me. So even if that reminder *had* been in there, which I don&#8217;t think it was, I might not have seen it.<\/p>\n<p>But. Enough excuses, let&#8217;s look at how I did.<\/p>\n<p>The goals are copy\/pasted below and the italics are my comments on them today.<\/p>\n<p><strong>#1 Work Goal:<br \/>\n<\/strong>This year I am working less. This is by design but it\u2019s still jarring to me every time I look at the white board which organizes my life and see so much more empty space than before. My number one work-related goal is to resist the urge to fill up those spaces and remember I created them on purpose.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em>I did manage to work less last year than I have in years past. And it was actually a really good thing that I had planned this out ahead of time because if I&#8217;d been trying to put out five or six books last year there&#8217;s no way I could have pulled it off. It was a very emotionally difficult year and I can&#8217;t imagine trying to do more than I did. And sometimes what I did was ONLY focus on writing what I owed my patrons and nothing else.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Writing:<br \/>\n<\/strong><em>With a Broken Wing<\/em>: I want to finish writing and, ideally, edit and publish this book in 2023.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em>Welp. This didn&#8217;t happen LOL No excuses, thought, and I have it in my planner again with a new deadline.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Garryn<\/em>: I want to write the first draft of my book about Garryn.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em>I had intended to write this as my NaNo novel for last year, but so far I haven&#8217;t had enough of the story coalesce in my mind for me to write it out. I thought I was going to be writing what was essentially his &#8216;backstory&#8217; but just now as I was writing this blog post I realised maybe that&#8217;s the problem. Maybe I&#8217;m not supposed to write the story of what came before, maybe that is just meant to inform the story that comes next. Interesting. I will have to ponder this some more.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Patreon<\/em>: I will continue to write at least two pieces of Patreon-exclusive content each month. And not just content, but content I am proud of. Bonus points if I make progress on the tarot-inspired project.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em>I did this. I wrote at least one Patreon exclusive thing that could either be a story or a poem and one Patreon exclusive poem every month. Sometimes more than that. I didn&#8217;t make any progress on the tarot-inspired project, that just wasn&#8217;t what was speaking to me, but I did write some stuff I&#8217;m really proud of. It feels pretty good, not gonna lie \ud83d\ude42<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Books:<br \/>\n<\/strong><em>Blindspots<\/em>: This was released exclusively to my Patreon in 2022. Once it\u2019s been exclusive there for a year I will release it widely.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em>I did this! It didn&#8217;t quite get the reception\/sales that I&#8217;d hoped, but that&#8217;s some details that probably belong in the marketing section below LOL The important part for this bit is that I released the book widely into the world \ud83d\ude42<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Prairie Spirit(s)<\/em>: This was also released exclusively on Patreon in 2022. Once it\u2019s been exclusive there for a year I will release it widely.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em>I didn&#8217;t do this. There was actually a really valid reason for it above and beyond &#8216;I just don&#8217;t have the spell slots for this right now&#8217; but I don&#8217;t remember the details LOL You&#8217;ll just have to take my word for it, I guess. I think it had to do with the exclusivity of the poems on Patreon because some were reprinted in the collection? I don&#8217;t remember&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Editing:<br \/>\n<\/strong><em>Women and the Sea<\/em>: This anthology (which has a new title we haven\u2019t announced yet) will be coming out this year. I want to give this beautiful book the launch it deserves. I have concrete sales goals written down offline, but primarily what I want is to feel like I have done everything I could to give it a good start in the world, and not flailed around dropping balls.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em>I am going to say I accomplished this. I didn&#8217;t hit any of my concrete sales goals (again, marketing, man) unfortunately, but I really do feel like I did what I could to give this book a good start in the world. And I&#8217;m continuing to follow-up on it actively in a way I haven&#8217;t really been able to do in the years when I&#8217;ve had 5 or 6 books come out, so thank you for planning less, Past Me. I really appreciate that.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Freelance:<\/em>\u00a0Limiting myself to one one freelance editing job every other month for this year. I really need to resist the urge to fill my calendar up with work and remember that just because I\u00a0<em>can<\/em>\u00a0do something does not mean I\u00a0<em>should.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em>I did a reasonably good job of limiting my freelance work last year. Unfortunately, I actually had to back out of editing one book I was looking forward to because I had too many things going on at the time&#8230; but also, points to me for\u00a0<strong>actually<\/strong> backing out when I realised it was the responsible thing to do rather than just trying to get it done no matter what the cost would have been to my mental health.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Marketing:<br \/>\n<\/strong><em>Systems:\u00a0<\/em>Once upon a time I felt like I had a process, a system, I would follow when putting out books. And it used to be reasonably effective (in a small fish kind of way) and sell a few books. Over the past three years or so I\u2019ve drifted away from that system and it\u2019s fallen apart. Great big bits of it are probably completely obsolete now\u2026<\/p>\n<p>All this to say, I feel like I\u2019ve totally forgotten how to sell books. Though I don\u2019t want to make it a primary focus this year \u2014 I still want to spend more time creating than selling \u2014 I would like to begin to feel like I at least have a system in place again. So I\u2019m going to test the process I used to use, find the holes and figure out how to patch them.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em>Dude. I still dunno how to sell books. I wrote up the system I used to use to sell books and I followed it pretty closely for both\u00a0<\/em>Blindspots<em> and\u00a0<\/em>Saltwater Sorrows\u00a0<em>and I don&#8217;t think that either really benefitted from my efforts. So I guess I get partial credit for doing this &#8212; I&#8217;ve tried something concrete and it didn&#8217;t work, so now I guess step two is to move on and try something else. I have no idea what that will be, really&#8230; I mean, I have some little bread crumb ideas, maybe? But I dunno&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Patreon:<\/em>\u00a0I want to organise myself to begin submitting the content which was originally Patreon-exclusive to 3rd party publications (magazines and anthologies) once it is out of its exclusivity period. By the end of the year I would like to have every no-longer-exclusive Patreon story and poem I\u2019ve written either reprinted elsewhere or on submission.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em>This is an ongoing thing but so far I&#8217;ve been pretty good about it. Even got a couple reprint sales so far \ud83d\ude42<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Edmonton Expo<\/em>: Improve the \u2018curb appeal\u2019 of my table and surpass last year\u2019s sales numbers.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em>Well, I think the table looked better this year, but sales were down some. Possibly because last year&#8217;s were artificially inflated by it having been the first Expo since the pandemic began? I&#8217;m not sure. We&#8217;ll try again in 2024 and see what happens lol<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Game Design:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>AVG:\u00a0<\/em>I am excited to continue doing my work with Archvillain Games. I don\u2019t have a concrete goal associated with this beyond do the job, do it well and make sure it\u2019s done on time.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em>I am most proud of the world-building work I did for AVG but none of it has been published yet for me to point to LOL Once it does you can bet I will be sharing it everywhere. I&#8217;m super pleased with it.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Other<\/em>: I have other Dungeons and Dragons related plans \u2014 one-shot collaborations, solo projects and the like \u2014 but they are all kind of on hold until we find out what is going on with the OGL. Short version of a long story \u2014 Hasbro\/Wizards of the Coast who own D&amp;D, may be canceling the open gaming license that third party creators use to legally make content. If they do that I won\u2019t be creating anything under their new license and will need to learn a new, different system to create content under. So. This ball is not in my court at the moment lol<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em>I mean&#8230; there was no concrete goal here, so that&#8217;s not super helpful, Past Rhonda LOL My one-shot collab is still in process, though, which I mention because it&#8217;s the only specific project mentioned in that &#8216;goal&#8217;.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Non-Work Stuff:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Swim in the ocean (it\u2019s been too damn long)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em>I went to the ocean, but I didn&#8217;t swim in it. There were reasons, but whatever. At least I saw it? LOL<\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Improve my mobility and background pain levels<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em>I don&#8217;t feel like I made as much progress on this as I should have. But toward the end of the year I finally started going for physio again. So that&#8217;s a good thing.<\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Make our back deck the useable outdoor space I\u2019ve imagined it could be<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em>Here&#8217;s the thing&#8230; we have two back decks &#8212; the little one attached the back door and a slightly larger one in the backyard by the garage. I am not sure which one I was referring to with this LOL We did get a little bistro set for the one by the back door, though, and that might be what I was talking about?<\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cPrevail\u201d against the garden in front of our living room<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em>An effort was made. I planted stuff. It, rather mysteriously, died. I&#8217;m honestly quite confused about what happened. I&#8217;m going to have to see what comes up again in the spring before I can determine how successful I was with this LOL<\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Plant trees in the back yard<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em>We planted a bunch of fruit trees in the back yard. Most of them are doing quite well, though our two Juliet cherries are not. I think that may have been a supply issue because they just never really grew at all after planting them and the other ones did. So. I&#8217;m calling this a victory.<\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Finish Jayde and Sheldon\u2019s quilts<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em>&#8230;in my defense, quilting just sorta fell off my radar this year. LOL<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Apparently I didn&#8217;t set any concrete word count or book reading goals for last year? That seems a bit odd LOL I didn&#8217;t actually keep track of the books I read &#8212; even Goodreads was too much for me at some points &#8212; but I did track my words. I&#8217;m excited to share that I edited a total of 410,545 words last year and I wrote 278,354 words. Those newly written words included the 82,717 I wrote in the month of November.<\/p>\n<p>Not too shabby. 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